Monday, August 6, 2012

The End meets the Beginning (Life is a circle)


Forty is the old age of youth; fifty the youth of old age”. How true it is??
Recent happenings in my home made me to realize the power of this old saying and this is the reason behind this post.

Going by this old saying, my mom just entered into her teenage and dad crossed his teenage in their old age. Recently my mom started losing her teeth due to gum disease which is quiet common at her age similar to infant having no teeth. Both my mom and dad’s muscles and bones become weak as with the child whose bones are weak in their forming and strengthening process.

In childhood, we were totally dependent on our parents for everything. They helped us monetarily to get education, to get good clothes, medicine to cure from illness, took us to movies and outings. Now after my dad’s retirement, I am doing the same to them.

I still remember, how my mom screamed when I asked her permission for taking bike to attend a function at the age of17. Now I am commanding my dad not to take his bike for longer distance to attend one. He became old enough to tackle the city’s traffic and rash driving by others.
These prove the popular saying “Old age is second childhood”. Except the fact that, kids grow stronger but older people don’t. As they grow old, their childishness also grows with them. Their bodies and minds start degenerating into what we once were, helpless children. They need a lot of care, affection and attention. They cry and become so dependent.

You are growing old every day, so am I. I do agree we tie youth close to our mind by keeping ourselves young and happy. So let us pour love and affection to them who already did altruistically on us.

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